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Social phobia and addiction: dual diagnosis

Reviewed by: Dr. Mahmoud El-Sawy Last updated: September 28, 2026 12 min read
The short answer

Many people with social anxiety discover that alcohol, sedatives, cannabis, or pregabalin ease their fear of people for a while, so they use them before every situation, and over time this “self-medication” turns into dependence and addiction that increases anxiety instead of easing it. The solution is treating both conditions together in one integrated plan, not treating one and ignoring the other.

  • In many people who have both, social anxiety comes before the alcohol problem.
  • Substance use does not prevent treatment of social anxiety; it makes treatment more urgent.
  • Stopping alcohol or sedatives after long dependence needs medical supervision.

Why do people with social anxiety turn to substances?

“Temporary courage”

The substance lowers dread and self-focus, so he feels that he is finally “normal” and can talk.

Peer pressure

In some gatherings, substance use becomes a way to fit in and avoid feeling different.

Numbing after the event

Some use the substance after a meeting to silence the painful review of every word they said.

No alternative

When he does not know that social anxiety is treatable, the substance seems the only solution available.

Which substances are commonly used with social anxiety?

Substances common with social anxiety and their particular risks
SubstanceWhy it appealsParticular risk
AlcoholRemoves inhibition and lowers dread quickly at social eventsGradual dependence, severe anxiety the next day, and withdrawal that can cause seizures
HashishUsed to “loosen up” at gatherings or to calm down afterwardMay increase anxiety and suspicion in some people, and is linked to reduced motivation and memory
PregabalinGives a feeling of calm and freer speechDependence and withdrawal, and serious danger when mixed with opioids or sedatives
Benzodiazepine sedatives such as XanaxQuickly ease the physical dreadRapid dependence, and stopping suddenly after long use can cause seizures
StimulantsSome believe they give boldness and fluencyIncrease palpitations, trembling, and anxiety, and may trigger panic attacks
Infographic: The relationship between social anxiety and substance use: alcohol, cannabis, pregabalin, benzodiazepine sedatives such as Xanax, stimulants
How drugs make social anxiety worse

How do substances make social anxiety worse?

  • They prevent learning: someone who faces a situation under the influence of a substance never discovers that he could do it without it, so the fear stays the same or grows.
  • Rebound anxiety: after the effect of alcohol or sedatives wears off, anxiety returns stronger, especially the next day, so the person needs the substance again.
  • Real embarrassment: behavior under the influence can cause genuinely embarrassing situations, so social fears are fed with new evidence.
  • Tolerance: with repetition the body needs larger amounts for the same effect, so the cycle speeds up.
  • Depression: alcohol and sedatives are depressants that increase sadness and isolation in the long run.

Which comes first: social anxiety or addiction?

In most cases social anxiety comes before substance use, because it usually begins in early adolescence, while substance use begins later in secondary school, university, or the start of work. This is why many doctors regard social anxiety as a “hidden gateway” to substance use problems in young people.

But the relationship can sometimes run the other way: withdrawal from alcohol or sedatives causes severe anxiety that may resemble social anxiety. So the doctor needs to assess the condition after a period of abstinence to tell withdrawal anxiety from genuine social anxiety.

What are the warning signs that social anxiety has turned into substance use?

  • Does not go to an event or a work meeting without first “getting himself sorted” with a substance.
  • Keeps sedative tablets or pregabalin without a prescription, or asks friends for them.
  • Drinks or uses long before the situation “just in case.”
  • Gradually increases the amount to get the same effect.
  • Feels anxiety, trembling, and severe insomnia if he does not use.
  • Has started using alone at home, not only at events.

Having two or more of these signs calls for a consultation with a dual diagnosis specialist before dependence deepens.

How are social anxiety and addiction treated together?

The most successful approach is integrated treatment: one team treating both conditions at the same time within one plan, rather than asking the patient to “stop first, then we’ll treat the social anxiety,” or the reverse. Treatment usually goes through the following stages:

  1. Assessment
    A full picture

    Identifying the substances and the severity of dependence, and the severity of the social anxiety and any accompanying depression or panic.

  2. Detox
    Safe stopping

    Stopping alcohol, sedatives, or pregabalin under medical supervision to avoid withdrawal complications.

  3. Phobia treatment
    Facing situations without a substance

    Cognitive behavioral therapy and gradual exposure, with a non-addictive medication when needed.

  4. Relapse prevention
    A plan for difficult situations

    Practice for weddings, gatherings, and work meetings without substance use, and regular follow-up.

Infographic: Stages of treating social anxiety and addiction together: the full picture, then safe stopping, then facing situations without a substance, then a plan for difficult situations
Stages of integrated treatment for social anxiety and addiction

Why does stopping alcohol or sedatives need medical supervision?

Withdrawal from alcohol or benzodiazepines after long use can cause seizures or life-threatening delirium, and withdrawal from pregabalin can cause severe anxiety and insomnia and may cause seizures in some people. For this reason, stopping suddenly at home without a doctor is not advised; a gradual taper plan or supervision in an equipped setting is.

Also, withdrawal anxiety in the first days can make it seem as if the social anxiety has “gotten worse.” This is expected and temporary, and the treatment team helps the patient get through it without going back to the substance.

What does the doctor consider when prescribing for social anxiety in someone with a history of substance use?

  • Prefers non-addictive medications such as SSRI antidepressants to treat the social anxiety itself.
  • Avoids prescribing benzodiazepine sedatives, or limits them to special cases under strict monitoring.
  • Asks frankly about any medications the patient gets without a prescription, such as pregabalin.
  • Monitors mood and any thoughts of self-harm, especially at the start of treatment and after stopping the substance.

How can a family help a son with social anxiety and addiction?

Many families get angry about the substance use without seeing the fear behind it. Understanding that the son used the substance in order to face people does not justify the use, but it changes the conversation: from accusation to concern for him, and from punishment to finding treatment for both causes together.

  • Talk to him at a calm time when he is not under the influence, and start with what you have noticed, not with judgments.
  • Acknowledge how hard social fear is for him, and say clearly that it can be treated.
  • Do not try to stop alcohol or sedatives suddenly by force at home; consult a specialist first.
  • After treatment, help him attend events gradually, and do not put him in situations where substance use is offered.

Treating social anxiety and addiction at Eradah

Dual diagnosis is at the heart of Eradah’s work. We begin with a comprehensive assessment of the social anxiety and the substance used together, then safe detox when needed, then a program that combines cognitive behavioral therapy for the anxiety with rehabilitation and relapse prevention, and involves the family. All of it is completely confidential. You can also contact the addiction treatment hotline 16023 for a free, confidential consultation.

Suicidal thoughts or danger to self? Get help now

  • Talking about wanting to die or being a "burden" on those around them
  • Severe hopelessness and a feeling that there is no way out of isolation and fear
  • Complete withdrawal from people and refusing to leave the room for days
  • Suddenly saying goodbye to family or getting rid of treasured belongings
  • Heavy drinking or taking sedatives along with talk of the end

Stay with the person and don't leave them alone, and listen without blame or dismissing their feelings. Call an ambulance on 123 or take them to the nearest emergency room if danger is imminent, contact the mental health support line on 16328, and move medications and dangerous objects out of their reach.

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Frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions about social anxiety and addiction: dual diagnosis

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Why do I only feel normal after drinking?

Because alcohol temporarily lowers the activity of the brain’s anxiety and self-focus centers, but it does not treat the fear. It stops you from discovering that you can manage without it and increases anxiety the next day. This is a sign worth consulting a specialist about.

Does pregabalin treat social anxiety?

UK guidelines do not recommend anticonvulsants, including pregabalin, as a routine treatment for social anxiety. Using it without a prescription to overcome shyness is one of the common patterns of becoming dependent on it.

Does cannabis reduce social anxiety?

It may give a temporary feeling of relaxation, but in many people it increases anxiety and suspicion and may trigger panic attacks, and repeated use is linked to worsening anxiety problems in the long run.

Can social anxiety be treated while I am still using?

Yes, treatment can begin; guidelines state that substance use should not prevent treatment of social anxiety. But results are much better when the substance use is treated in parallel within one treatment plan.

Should I stop Xanax suddenly if I want treatment?

No. Stopping benzodiazepines suddenly after regular use can cause seizures and severe anxiety. Stopping should be gradual, with a plan set by the doctor.

How can I attend weddings and events after recovery without using?

By practicing beforehand with the therapist, attending for a short time at first, bringing a supportive person, staying away from places where substances are offered, and having a clear plan for what to do if the craving gets strong.

Does social anxiety make relapse easier?

It can if the social anxiety itself is not treated, because fear remains a strong motive for going back to the substance. This is why treating the social anxiety is an essential part of relapse prevention.

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